We are not separate from each other. But we don’t always believe it, and we certainly don’t always practice it. In fact, we often practice the opposite—disconnection and domination. From unconscious bias to “cancel culture,” denial of our inherent interconnection limits our own freedom.

In You Belong, I reveal that accepting your belonging is the key to facing the many challenges currently impacting our world. I use ancient philosophy, multidisciplinary research, exquisite storytelling, and razor sharp wit (if I may so myself!). I lead you in an exploration of all the ways we separate (and thus suffer) and offer you a map back to belonging.

To belong is to experience joy in any moment: to feel pleasure, dance in public, accept death, forgive what seems unforgivable, and extend kindness to yourself and others. To belong is also to acknowledge injustice, reckon with history, and face your own shadows. In You Belong, I offer you practical advice and profound revelations and I make a winning case for resisting the forces that demand separation and invite you to reclaim the connection—and belonging—that have been yours all along.